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Contrasting wolves

My body is a room full of ghosts
Its walls made of frail bones, cracked stones
Broken light rays hazing through the holes, made-up windows
Violet and green hues collide, neon existances side-by-side
Contrasting wolves fight for expression
In a crystal chamber of ressurection
Ever-changing shadows, they fill my soul
Daunting growls of fear echoe through my skull
My heart's an ever expanding bomb ready to collapse
Counting my final days by a stop-motion time-lapse
As I sit still hallucinating by the sea
The wolves, they fuse themselves psychadelically
In the dark room of dispair, their sillouettes embrace
Ether floods the air, body seizes, there's no place
Nowhere, no clocks, seizure of shattered bones and rocks
The void of materiality bursts finally
Violet and green they set me free

(UNBREAK)ABLE: a wheelchair performance




"Quis despir-me. Na verdade, queria poder despir mais que o corpo. Depois das roupas queria tirar a pele. Depois da pele queria arrancar a carne. Depois da carne desfazer os ossos entre os dedos e os dentes. E desse nada que restasse, ver nos meus despojos até onde se demarca a minha diferença. Isto sou eu. Não sei o que isso quer dizer. Não sei a forma certa de me olhares, não há forma certa de me olhares, não há forma certa de coisa nenhuma, era por isso que não sabia como fazer nada disto. Partiria tudo do pressuposto do que vês quando me olhas. E a verdade absoluta de mim, nem eu a tenho.

Uma pessoa, por acaso numa cadeira, ou uma cadeira com uma pessoa? Isto sou eu. Há 22 anos que ansiava pela minha própria libertação. Descobri a arte como espectro das minhas prisões. O alimentar e o alimento circular dos meus fantasmas. Tempos a fio procurei um grito de fénix. Mais tarde percebi ser cíclica. Caminhar lado a lado com a morte, respirar cara a cara com o frágil, transpirar pele a pele com o vácuo, é isso que me renova, é isso que me mantém. Será um dos meus poucos vícios, injectar sal nas feridas.

Quis mostrar esse tanto mais. Para lá de posto em causa o diferente e o igual, o que fica por ver. Não sabia como. O meu corpo, por si só, grita teses demasiado alto para que o resto sobressaia.

Então, quis ir mais longe ainda: fiz da nudez ferramenta, das cicatrizes néones para um olhar aberto, das deformidades um púlpito por onde te trago a olhar-me desde mim. E despojei o caminho expectável do resultado artístico. Ao que em mim há de poeta, retirei a poesia. Deito-me por terra, o nu do corpo espelha apenas a erupção que há-de vir. Faço da sujeição à minha própria infimidade desmascarada, despudorada de artifícios, o veículo para a minha própria libertação.

Era isso que me faltava – não eram poemas, não era a demonstração óbvia do físico per si, não era o simbolismo artístico de uma identidade fluida de género, ou o fio da navalha da morte – isso é o que já sou todos os dias. Faltava-me a crueza de me deixar ao precipício de mim, puxar da raiz de todos os traumas e deixar que a realidade tomasse o seu curso de explosão. Por uma (e de uma) vez, sem estéticas, ser-me veículo e permitir-me a chorar todas as lágrimas. Incorro no risco do sufocante demasiado, ciente disso como na vida, acompanhar-me-ão os que souberem ficar, do maior resto não rezará a minha história. Hoje enfrento os meus fantasmas, cultivá-los-ei alimentados da minha pele, suor, lágrimas, e tudo o mais que este deliberado incurso no precipício proporcionar, para que jamais me deixem. É deles que voo. A minha vida é isso – vertigem."


(Texto produzido para contextualização do processo criativo da performance (Unbreak)able: - Estudos de Performance - Licenciatura Estudos Artísticos, Artes do Espectáculo, FLUL 2017.)

"I am ever-changing and that is ok!" - my biggest (true) struggles

So, I've been thinking for about a week now on what to write about next. I guess all this has become so mainstream to me, I don't always think there are enough relevant topics for me to write about, related to the wheels. Which was, after all, my point on creating this platform (as explained here). So I kind of proved my own argument already - well that was quick!
Still, there is a lot that is debatable, I guess. I foud myself caught on thinking what are my biggest current struggles. And, suddenly, void... I couldn't think of nothing. This is why it took me so long to upload a new post.
But then it finally hit me. My biggest struggles, most of them at least, are unrelated to cerebral palsy itself. Many are an indirect consequence of how it made me see life, sure, but it seized to be so much about the physical handicap long ago. Lets break it into parts though, for the matter of being exact (I'm already predicitng I'll get carried away on some topics, but here we go anyways.
- Physically, the things I find the hardest are: transfering to and from the wheelchair at unplanned scenarios, going outside on the manual wheelchair on my own (I still can't go up and down curbs or ramps, luckily I think the active wheelchair coming soon will solve this), reaching high places (I measure 1,40m, so standing does not help much either,), obviously walking alone (once again hey panic-spasticity-falling love triangle, big thanks), flexing my knees and everything that may have to necessarily depend on that (this is due to a surgery that I had back in 2007, which consists in exchanging the flexor and extensor tendon, in order to be able to stretch the legs, which priorly was not possible due to spasticity). And I can't think of much else, right this instant.
Foto de Inês Marto.Ok, now that that's out of the way, we can get into the serious stuff. My biggest struggles, unfortunately I would add, are not physical(ly mine). And believe me, it is way easier to deal with those first ones. There are those which are related to them:
- It was a damn nightmare to find a flat without a single step (but hey I finally have a home in Lisbon!). Commuting and generally using public transportations on my own is still a pain in the ass (again the new wheelchair, once I get the hang of using it on all its splendor, lets hope so, can help this) mainly because if I am by myself, I have to use my electric scooter (it's an Invacare Colibri if you're interested). Which means having to wait for an adapted bus and also one that is empty enough that I can fit. And as for the subway, "Mind the gap" is as true as it can get, for a scooter. I'm not gonna get into the stations' elevators either, that would deserve a post of its own. Another thing related to all this is pombaline architecture. I love Lisbon and I wouldn't trade living here for anywhere else (no, not even NY), but those damn steps by the door everywhere... and did I mention I have a tendency for liking the hardest possible settings? Newsflash: I love the oldest neighbourhoods... and yeah I have tried riding a scooter in Alfama... well there are worse things...
But all this is not my point. Lets get raw. The struggles that impact me the most on a daily basis are:
- Depression and anxiety (read more about how it all started here).
- Panic attacks (sometimes caused by physical activities going wrong) which make me freeze and not be able to move anymore.
- Acceptance. Ok this is a big one, maybe the biggest. My struggle with it comes in many forms. Self-acceptance, for starters: the difficulty in getting it stuck in my head that I am enough, I push enough, I try enough. The challenge of constantly believing my own beliefs even when the world seems to collapse.
- Public image: this is related with the previous but not only. The "oh look, she's in a wheelchair" thing, it kills me, not gonna fake it. The expectations related to that, most of all. The embedded ideas that we are either completely useless or olympic atheletes on the making. The social pressure to stay active, stay in therapies, walk more, push further (yes I am aware I do it to myself too and it sucks). And being called lazy, most of all, as if what I do or don't do is not my option like everyone else (including being lazy if I want to!).
- Mind and body relation: this also of course connected with the rest. But me myself accepting my own body like it is, tummy rolls included, is not easy at all. Accepting my legs wont move the way I want them to is one of the hardest parts of not offending and blaming myself.
- Sexuality: this is a harsh topic. This definately deserves a post of its own very soon. But the general idea that we rollers don't have it really baffles me. And then my own fears of being sexually rejected because of all this shit... yeah.
- Gender expression: damn! Did I want to talk about this for ages! I define myself as bigender. So definately one of my biggest struggles is not to be ashamed of expressing my male side. Accepting body hair, for example, without being self-conscious about it myself because of what others will think. (This will also be explored deeper soon)
- Life-style: I'm a writer. Yes, the typical lonely one. I'm also a night owl, and generally keep brainstorming on my own ideas and projects till about 6am everyday. Absolutely hate mornings, avoid them at all costs. But the thing is, why the hell can't that be accepted, socially? Why do I sound crazy and utopic for living for my art and working under the moon, if that does it for me? In what does that differ from a business man that wakes up by the time I fall asleep to pursue his dream? Because so am I.
Foto de Inês Marto.And I think the bottomline of my struggles is precisely there. Accepting that I am just pursuing my dreams and that's ok. That I'm here to be happy and that's ok, and most of all that that's enough. And also people understanding that. But if I am not consistant myself, how will others be accepting, right? Wrong! Utterly wrong. No matter how broken and ambiguous I am, I know which parts of me are really me, and which ones are a reflection of all that shit above.
And that is all I wanted, after all. That people understood that I am not all neat paitings and flowers, but I don't want to be either. Even if I curse myself way too many times. I am learning to love my own darkness. I am learning to let my own (literal and not literal) scars free. One step at a time (pun intended) but I am getting there. That is my point: I am ambiguous and that's ok. I am unconsistent and that is ok. I have tummy rolls and that is ok. I am bigender and that is ok. I am gynesexual (person sexually attracted to femininity, not necessarily only in women - hey, another article to post asap!)and that is ok. I am a dreamer and that is ok. I am polyamorous and that is ok. I am still learning and that is ok. I am bigender and that is ok. I am ever-changing and that is ok. I am on a wheelchair and that is ok. I still struggle, and that is ok. Most of all, after all I am contradictory, guess what, that's ok! Main point: I am real. And someday in this world, that will be ok.